When Blame Becomes a Cycle in Your Relationship Have you ever found yourself caught in a never-ending loop of arguments, always pointing the finger at your spouse? Maybe you feel justified, after all, they’ve done things that have hurt you. But constantly blaming them for every conflict can leave both of you feeling stuck, misunderstood,…

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When Blame Becomes a Cycle in Your Relationship Have you ever found yourself caught in a never-ending loop of arguments, always pointing the finger at your spouse? Maybe you feel justified, after all, they’ve done things that have hurt you. But constantly blaming them for every conflict can leave both of you feeling stuck, misunderstood,…

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Do you ever wonder why the same conflicts keep showing up in your relationships? The truth is, that lasting change begins within—specifically with self-awareness.  I hate to admit this but I lacked so much self-awareness for many years in my marriage and during our marriage crisis, I blamed my husband for a lot of things.…

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It’s easy to think that kids don’t notice much about your marriage. After all, they’re busy with school, friends, and hobbies. But in truth, little eyes are always watching, absorbing more than you may realize. Your marriage is one of the most powerful influences on your children’s lives, and it teaches them lessons that shape…

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Different doesn’t mean wrong.   Why do we get stuck into the trap of thinking our spouses should just know… Or why do we expect them to think and respond just like us? I mean, we’ve been married for 20 years so shouldn’t we be on the same page about everything?  No, just because I…

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